You Want Me to Argue?

2014-08-19 19.41.26My world is spinning in marriage as of late.  Not my own marriage, but difficult marriages.

About eight months ago my husband told me he had been looking into getting some training to help men in difficult marriage situations.  It seems that his work world was being ravaged by men who were on the brink of divorce. Read more

Tired of Waiting?

2014-08-19 19.41.43I’ve been asking God lately why we have to spend so much time waiting as parents.  Sometimes its as simple as waiting for our child to pull themselves away from the computer so we can eat dinner as a family.  Other times, it is waiting to see if our teens will ever mature enough to be successful in this world.  We wait for them to get their driver’s license only to experience the consequences and financial burden of a speeding ticket or accident.  We wait for what sometimes seems like the impossible.  They push the limits, talk to us in disrespectful ways,  become addicted to a person, or substance, or they turn their backs on our core beliefs. Read more

Re-entry + Time = Conflict

2014-08-09 11.24.28I seem to be swimming in re-entry these days. For me, I’ve been struggling with re-entry into blogging.  The longer I’ve procrastinated (+time), the more conflict that seems to take place in my mind.  You know the kind where you carry on a conversation with yourself .  The voices go something like “once I get this done, I’ll go write” or “what I’m doing right now is more important” or “next week I’ll get started again”.  Luckily, blogging only involves me, so I can resolve the conflict in my head. Read more